Wednesday, 17 August 2011
Friday, 8 July 2011
Am Ende verlieren wir das Interesse an gedanklicher Vertiefung
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Am Ende verlieren wir das Interesse an gedanklicher Vertiefung
Von Xenia Tchoumitcheva
Vergessen Sie die griechische Schuldenkrise und auch die Sorgen der EU! Soeben komme ich zurück von einem Ausflug nach Chalkidiki, dem Geburtsort Aristoteles’. Ich konnte nicht anders, als mich an der Warmherzigkeit und der positiven Lebensweise der Griechen zu erfreuen. Und das, obwohl die meisten von ihnen gerade eine schwere Zeit durchmachen. Der Zauber der Antike ist an jeder Ecke spürbar – und er wirkt inspirierend. Wenn wir also schon das Haushalten nicht von den Griechen lernen können, so vielleicht etwas anderes. Ich fragte mich auf dem Rückflug: Wie kann es sein, dass einige Menschen, die vor mehr als 2000 Jahren gelebt haben, die Welt und ihre sozialen Gesetzmässigkeiten so gut wie wir – oder teils sogar besser – erfassen konnten? Hat sich unser Gehirn nicht weiterentwickelt seit den Sophisten, die ihr Leben damit verbrachten, veraltete Theorien über die Welt zu kritisieren?
Vielleicht ist das schon die ganze Wahrheit: das Leben hat sich beschleunigt, die Gesellschaft mit ihm – und der Normalbürger hat gar nicht mehr die Zeit, sich konsequent einem Problem oder einer Theorie zu widmen. Immer hat man etwas anderes zu tun: irgendwohin unterwegs sein, Geld verdienen, Beziehungen pflegen, das alles, während wir durch unsere Städte hetzen. Und weil wir so viele verschiedene Dinge tun, glauben wir, auch gesamthaft mehr zu leisten – das Gegenteil könnte aber der Fall sein.
TV, Internet, Magazine, Radio – sie alle werfen uns nur Häppchen hin, kleine, konsumierbare Dosen, die sich nicht unangenehm breitmachen. Die tiefgreifende Auseinandersetzung mit einer Frage und ihre Einordnung in einen grösseren Kontext bleiben auf der Strecke. Mehr noch: unser verinnerlichter Häppchenkonsum droht auf lange Sicht diese Art der Weitergabe von Wissen zu eta-blieren! Millionen von täglichen Blogbeiträgen, Facebook- und Twitter-Nachrichten widmen sich der blossen Verlinkung von anderswo entstandenen Informationen. Verstehen wir «reduce to the max» weiterhin derart falsch, besteht die Gefahr, das Interesse an einer gedanklichen Vertiefung gänzlich zu verlieren.
Wie finden wir also unsere Kontemplationszeit? Eine Strategie, die sich in den USA grosser Beliebtheit erfreut, nennt sich schlicht «Mindfulness». Diese mit buddhistischen Meditationsstrategien angereicherte psychologische Therapie zur Stressreduktion hat einen einfachen Kern: der Patient wird dazu angehalten, aufmerksam mit der eigenen Umwelt umzugehen, ohne in erster Instanz über sie zu urteilen. Das betrifft die Beschäftigung mit den Dingen um uns herum ebenso wie das simple Erkennen und Betrachten von allem, was uns neu oder fremd erscheint. Sobald erkannt, so die Lehre, solle bewusst die Initiative ergriffen werden, um Entscheidungen zu treffen. Agieren statt – wie sonst üblich – reagieren.
Wie finden wir also unsere Kontemplationszeit? Eine Strategie, die sich in den USA grosser Beliebtheit erfreut, nennt sich schlicht «Mindfulness». Diese mit buddhistischen Meditationsstrategien angereicherte psychologische Therapie zur Stressreduktion hat einen einfachen Kern: der Patient wird dazu angehalten, aufmerksam mit der eigenen Umwelt umzugehen, ohne in erster Instanz über sie zu urteilen. Das betrifft die Beschäftigung mit den Dingen um uns herum ebenso wie das simple Erkennen und Betrachten von allem, was uns neu oder fremd erscheint. Sobald erkannt, so die Lehre, solle bewusst die Initiative ergriffen werden, um Entscheidungen zu treffen. Agieren statt – wie sonst üblich – reagieren.
Diese Technik ist langsameren Kulturen längst bekannt. Sie praktizieren seit Jahrtausenden Yoga, verbringen Wochen oder Monate in Zurückgezogenheit oder haben andere Praktiken, um zur Besinnung zu kommen. Der Sabbat, Tag der Ruhe der Juden, an dem nicht bloss das Arbeiten, sondern auch alle anderen Routinetätigkeiten verboten waren, diente ebenso der Sammlung von Kräften wie der christliche Sonntag – zumindest letzterer spielt aber heute kaum noch eine Rolle. Die Regeneration, die gerade in unserer beschleunigten Welt eine zentrale Rolle spielen müsste, existiert vielfach nicht mehr.
Eine Idee braucht kontinuierliche geistige Nahrung und vor allem das richtige Umfeld, um zu gedeihen. Das Sammeln von Eindrücken und Informationen in der dissonanten Informationsorgie, die auf uns einwirkt, kann einen Geistesblitz hervorrufen – das menschliche Gehirn braucht aber Zeit, um ihn auch zu verarbeiten. Das falsch verstandene «reduce to the max» muss einem richtig verstandenen «Weniger ist mehr» weichen!
Thursday, 9 June 2011
Sunday, 22 May 2011
The need of a dream
I'm not going to start pulling out numbers about the Royal wedding, nor talk about the 2,2 billion people who watched it on television- as we are all sick of the countless pictures and articles about the pretty couple. I would like to take it as a starting point for reflection, however.
I do admit, with slight embarrassment, that I associate and include myself, with the charmed, moved crowd. Critics say it is a largely commercial, hypocritical event and everyone seems to have a word on the matter, but let's not deny it - we all need a piece of fairy tale in life.
I do admit, with slight embarrassment, that I associate and include myself, with the charmed, moved crowd. Critics say it is a largely commercial, hypocritical event and everyone seems to have a word on the matter, but let's not deny it - we all need a piece of fairy tale in life.
I wish more governments invested in positive examples - in philosophy, in arts, in sports. There was much hype around Amy Chua's 2011 book about her tough parenting methods and the hours of piano practicing she inflicted every day on her 7 years old daughter Lulu. But the Chinese "Tiger Mothers" are just one example of how some cultures are educating their future generations.
This is something that cannot yet be said about our capitalistic, western world. Population's role models can be found in vulgar reality shows (not only the Big Brother, but also shows like the Only Way Is Essex, or the American Jersey Shore - an hymn to ignorance and impoliteness), it's heroes are football players and its biggest aspirations become those of having a bigger house, the latest fashion item or a faster car. Their end goal is consumption and their real God to the "Sir Money".
I don't consider this a negative fact: ambition to have a better life is totally legitimate and a motor for growth.
What is unacceptable about today's society is that rulers and self-made millionaires sometimes allow themselves to praise the fact that they have managed to succeed without having ever read a book or been any good at reading or writing. They actually offer their ignorance as a proof of their more serious devotion to the art of making money.
Today's socially important characters have little to do with the citizens of mark of the Princes of Italian Renaissance or the Age of Enlightenment, who were as able to rule a nation as to compose poetry, play the flute or know history in-depth. I am unsure of how many modern politicians could defend the category nowadays, Sarah Palin isn't one of them.
What is unacceptable about today's society is that rulers and self-made millionaires sometimes allow themselves to praise the fact that they have managed to succeed without having ever read a book or been any good at reading or writing. They actually offer their ignorance as a proof of their more serious devotion to the art of making money.
Today's socially important characters have little to do with the citizens of mark of the Princes of Italian Renaissance or the Age of Enlightenment, who were as able to rule a nation as to compose poetry, play the flute or know history in-depth. I am unsure of how many modern politicians could defend the category nowadays, Sarah Palin isn't one of them.
Great Britain's royal wedding not only was a celebration of love, the religious rite and the tradition of marriage - it has given us a glimpse back to a time where well manners, decent dresses and formal kind gestures were a standard. Maybe an inspiration to look back to the centuries and dream of higher standards in terms of culture and education, a brighter future than just a dry, plain money making process that works in the short term - until the Tiger Mom's multi-talented children grow up.
Monday, 4 April 2011
Don't let it get in your way.
Who still believes in the motto "fake it till you make it"? Promoting the image without any real substance to back it up, in fact - lying to create momentum and opportunities and get ahead in a career, community or simply among a circle of friends.
There were times in the past when taking such a risk has really paid off, but nowadays the balance in the substance vs. image debate has taken a remarkable swing towards the latter. If everyone wastes times appear more than they really are then won't we be losing more precious time that could be spent in being productive, in trying to prove to others that we've somehow made it?

I think that in this image conscious society the way we appear, the ideas we give to others about our skills and success, and the value we place on gossip and rumour about us and the number of times our name has been published/pronounced in public has become way too important.
I'm not saying we should disregard appearance - if you walk into a bank dressed and smelling like a deadbeat it is very unlikely someone is gonna ever consider giving you a loan for your innovative unique business idea.
Human beings that live in a society need to feel accepted, recognized and respected - that is a given. But already decades ago the psychologist Maslow put those kind of esteem needs below what he considered the most important for a living person: the so-called 'self-actualizing' needs, those of fulfilling one's own potential without caring much about others' opinions.
Not only could this extreme search for social consent put at risk one's gradual build up of professional or private persona, it's also getting on the way of genuine happiness. Caring too much about approval, reputation and appearance is a big distraction from what actually matters: substance.
We often hear it from people who had the guts to go an unorthodox way in order to follow a dream: they were told at the very beginning - it will never work, that's isn't for you, you won't make it - guess what they did? They didn't try to second guess people's opinions. And they made it.
The star financier Warren Buffett says that people have an Inner and an Outer Scorecard - "if the world couldn't see your results, would you rather be thought as the world's greatest investor but in reality have the world's worst record? Or be thought as the worst and you were actually the best?". You should put the emphasis on your inner valuation of yourself, and that should be the source of your satisfaction.
From a purely commercial point of view you can't sale hot air forever, production must come first, sales and marketing has to be the last step of the chain.
In a more spiritual, oriental approach: why not just quietly be? Forget all the noise around you, focus on the here and now, and go your own way.
There were times in the past when taking such a risk has really paid off, but nowadays the balance in the substance vs. image debate has taken a remarkable swing towards the latter. If everyone wastes times appear more than they really are then won't we be losing more precious time that could be spent in being productive, in trying to prove to others that we've somehow made it?
I think that in this image conscious society the way we appear, the ideas we give to others about our skills and success, and the value we place on gossip and rumour about us and the number of times our name has been published/pronounced in public has become way too important.
I'm not saying we should disregard appearance - if you walk into a bank dressed and smelling like a deadbeat it is very unlikely someone is gonna ever consider giving you a loan for your innovative unique business idea.
Human beings that live in a society need to feel accepted, recognized and respected - that is a given. But already decades ago the psychologist Maslow put those kind of esteem needs below what he considered the most important for a living person: the so-called 'self-actualizing' needs, those of fulfilling one's own potential without caring much about others' opinions.
Not only could this extreme search for social consent put at risk one's gradual build up of professional or private persona, it's also getting on the way of genuine happiness. Caring too much about approval, reputation and appearance is a big distraction from what actually matters: substance.
We often hear it from people who had the guts to go an unorthodox way in order to follow a dream: they were told at the very beginning - it will never work, that's isn't for you, you won't make it - guess what they did? They didn't try to second guess people's opinions. And they made it.
The star financier Warren Buffett says that people have an Inner and an Outer Scorecard - "if the world couldn't see your results, would you rather be thought as the world's greatest investor but in reality have the world's worst record? Or be thought as the worst and you were actually the best?". You should put the emphasis on your inner valuation of yourself, and that should be the source of your satisfaction.
From a purely commercial point of view you can't sale hot air forever, production must come first, sales and marketing has to be the last step of the chain.
In a more spiritual, oriental approach: why not just quietly be? Forget all the noise around you, focus on the here and now, and go your own way.
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Tuesday, 22 March 2011
Sunday, 20 March 2011
fake girl Carre Viiip
the girl describing herself as me
and using my name in a french reality
is obviously NOT me.
people are crazy nowadays, I am absolutely not doing any reality.
ps. her real name is Anastasia READ ARTICLE
ps. her real name is Anastasia READ ARTICLE
Thursday, 3 March 2011
who's watching you while you are connected?
Who hasn't got a cell phone? And who has never tried to interact on social networks and chats? We have to admit it, the society has changed more in the last decades then it ever has in millenniums and we have elaborated incredible ways to communicate and stay in touch.
Maybe the need to stay connected 24/7 to everyone is a reaction to the alienation and loneliness of the modern "independent individuals" always-more-divorced society, and an attempt to turn our virtual relationships into our new big family. But at the same time tools like Skype permit people from all around the world to hear and see their loved ones at all times.
My question is - do we feel psychologically obliged to be responsive and online constantly?
"Stop calling me, I'm kinda busy" sings Lady Gaga - turning off our phones and being unreachable for a couple of days has become a luxury that only 40 years ago was totally normal. Nowadays if your boss sends an email to your blackberry at night, and you don't see it - the fault is yours.
Another question arises - is there someone who is profiting on our need to stay in touch?
Our phones easily indicate our exact position to the mobile provider even when they are off, and we can as well decide to share our location with our friends and contacts. Social networks show our opinions through statuses and fan pages starting with taste in music, goods, or services and ending with political preferences.
Not only Google can track down any statistics on what people need and look for and theoretically influence the result of the research, it has also a pictured three-dimentional map of the streets of many cities - often seen as intrusive and potentially dangerous for foreign affairs.
Do we have the freedom to decide to hide something or are we constantly controlled? Have the Big Brother times really arrived?
The difference between Huxley and Orwell's novels and the current situation is that not only the rulers are to observe and control the masses, but it's a two-way tool: any person can stand up and be heard more easily from large numbers of people: Julian Assange and his cables have proved how quickly a guy who apparently has nothing to do with large communication politics is able to reach the whole population and create big political controversy throughout the web.
The freedom and democracy of internet, at least in certain countries, has given equal opportunities for many - bloggers can express themselves in every way they want, from fashion to literature, and can decide to build their own image and fortune only through their talents and without needing any intermediaries. New stars are often discovered at a very young age after posting their performances on video sharing sites.
The net not only provides quick interaction, but also free books, pictured tours into the most important museums, as well as language tutorials and university open sessions.
Progress can't be stopped.
Friday, 4 February 2011
Independent babes
“Question, tell me what you think about me–I buy my own diamonds and I buy my own rings,” sang Destiny’s Child more than a decade ago. But true emancipation of women throughout the world is far from being achieved. And I am not talking only differences in salary amongst men and women.
We are the post-sexual revolution women of the 21st century; we are the post-feminists; we are the pill-for-granted generation. But we are still playing the sex game: short skirts, high heels, make up, and plastic surgery. How much do we take advantage of this role, of the scheme in which sexiness turns on powerful men, than try to change it?
Some nations see this phenomena more than others. Women follow the rule, selling themselves, playing dumb and dancing half naked on Sunday-afternoon’s family TV programs. Are they really victims of “sex-sells”? Sometimes it seems easier to use femininity and looks than to get to a job where you have to work like a man and be respected as one, then come back home and finish the day parenting as a supermummy.
But women who became CEOs, politicians, doctors and other professionals work hard to attain independence. Marrying a millionaire can elevate a girl on the social ring or get her a higher job position, but no money on this world will ever buy her self-respect and the true deep satisfaction that comes from personal achievements. You can buy happiness, but only with the money you truly earn.
Monday, 3 January 2011
Thursday, 23 December 2010
let's talk burlesque
Pino Gomes - thematic picture
The Burlesque trend is going strong again. Maybe because we were all craving for the comeback of soft curves after decades of skinny models, or maybe we’ve had enough of emancipated superwomen: for sure burlesque striptease queens symbolize submission and servility.
Do you remember Lady Marmalade? Christina Aguilera does it again (trying to save her career from the flop of Bionic), this time with Cher in a Hollywood production. And pin-up symbol Dita Von Teese is currently at the top of her career at 38.
The difference between these modern day burlesque symbols and simple pole dancers is that these contemporary icons are unreachable and idealized, which brings them closer to a form of art. I’m sure musicians, painters and designers won’t miss it. Say hello to ‘50s and corsets.
Monday, 20 December 2010
'asmall' society winter weekend in Gstaad
Travelers and website members from Tokyo, Vancouver, New York and München faced the snow and several flight delays to attend ASW’s Winter Weekend. The event was exclusively dedicated to la crème de la crème of the social network or for any member who could afford to buy a ticket and feel part of this privileged asmall society.
The palatial Gstaad Palace was closed to welcome the weekend’s guests. Great organization was provided from the whole team and the program was curated in every detail: from heliskiing and carriage rides to Christmas shopping and Poker School.
The entertainment for the gala evening included performances by The Little Dream Foundation, burlesque queen Zoe Scarlett, and singer and Ernesto Bertarelli’s wife Kirsty.
Journalists from Swiss and German magazines enjoyed writing pieces about different characters who arrived to support the event like the American actress Tara Reid (with new boy toy Bartholomew) and the German WAG Liliana Matthäus, as well as about the generous charity raffle for the Swiss Red Cross.
Wednesday, 15 December 2010
Quintessentially 10th anniversary
In the newly restored and sumptuous hotel Savoy on the River Thames, London came back in time in the 20's. Every international guest dressed up to the nines in the charleston style to attend the crowded standing dinner for Quintessentially's 10th anniversary on Monday.
The global private members' club, founded 10 years ago by Thomas Henry Parker Bowles along with other leading pupils of Eton College, has positioned its membership as a status symbol for the high society.
Guests such as actress Claire Forlani, singer Plan B and Holly Valance, among others, watched the delightful shows, life music and à-la-Dita Von Teese burlesque striptease.
copright QQ
Tuesday, 14 December 2010
Monday, 13 December 2010
breakfast in bed
Does 'evil' signifies the same as 'individual', 'free', 'capricious', 'unusual','unforeseen', 'incalculable'?
Saturday, 11 December 2010
London Haute Secrets
Haute Living Magazine
Compared to a young Brigitte Bardot, young Ms. Tchoumitcheva has parlayed a first runner-up result in the famed Miss Switzerland pageant into establishing herself as a bankable talent with strong media ties and brand relationships
A citizen of Lugano, Switzerland, she speaks five languages fluently (Italian, Russian, English, German and French) and recently graduated from University a Degree in Economics
WHERE WERE YOU BORN: Russia, lived in Switzerland since the age of 6
HOW LONG IN LONDON: Off and on a couple of years as I did some internships in finance - now I travel between Switzerland, New York and London
BEST ASPECT OF LONDON: Its elegance and culture
Friday, 10 December 2010
Wednesday, 8 December 2010
Open Magazine
Die Schönheitskönigin der Schweiz, Xenia Tchoumitcheva, Herkunft Schweizer k a n t o n und Russland, ist eine l k o n e , die sich ihren Platz in der Sonne als Topmodel mit Mut und Erfolg verdient hat. Ihre Intelligenz, ihre azurblauen Augen, ihre goldenen Haare machen sie einfach zu etwas Erhabenem.
Tuesday, 7 December 2010
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